The fourth commonality among successful expatriates is a high EQ. There is indeed a connection with humility and agility, but a high EQ reflects an individual’s level of self-awareness and general ability to recognize and manage their own behaviour and deliberately affect others’.
Humility allows an individual to be reflective and identify genuine strengths as well as blind spots. The ability to pivot enables leaders to change their behaviour during an interaction in order to evoke a desired response.
A key distinction that separates EQ from the other success factors is that it can be developed; someone who either has low self or social awareness, the inability to regulate their responses or effectively influence others can work towards improving one or all of these areas. Humility, curiosity and the ability to pivot are ingrained mindsets and more difficult to develop. There are many effective ways to improve one’s EQ, including partnering with an effective coach.
We have seen in previous cases that behaviours such as an admission that a newly transplanted leader “has as much to learn from his new team and it does from him” (http://www.theexpatcompass.com/the-humble-expatriate-is-the-successful-expatriate/) and changing a pure metric-based management style to one focused on relationship-building (http://www.theexpatcompass.com/the-successful-expat-is-agile/) have resulted in garnering team support in a cross-cultural environment and success as an international leader. Conversely, John’s inability to change his maverick management style ultimately led to his failure as an expatriate manager (http://www.theexpatcompass.com/the-successful-expat-is-agile/).
You would also rightly conclude that humility, agility and a high EQ are hallmarks of an effective leader … expat or not. This is an important point for it also underlines the importance of having a meticulous and thoughtful selection process to identify candidates with the highest probability of effectiveness and success as an expatriate.
Organizations know the importance of an effective selection process – to realize their return on an international assignment, commercial success, and effectively manage talent. Yet how many organizations truly have the rigor and objectivity to screen for expatriate success? I suspect a very low number –
The four characteristics: humility; agility; high EQ and curiosity are vital starting points to determining expatriate effectiveness at the workplace. The selection of expatriate leaders and the importance of a rigorous process will be the subject of future articles.
Lawrence Chi is a coach for expatriates and cross-cultural consultant. His mission is to grow expatriates professionally and personally and to make organizations more international. Visit his website www.TheExpatCompass.com.